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In the course of my work as a postpartum doula, I never know what the scene will be when I step into
the home of a new mother. Thus it was when Liz, tall and dark-haired, opened the door of her home. She smiled apprehensively
and thanked me profusely for coming. I followed her to the bedroom to meet her new baby daughter, she apologizing all the
way for the mess. But what I saw was a beautiful home on a hill with huge sunny windows revealing a breathtaking view of the
city below. Everything was neat as a pin. Too neat for someone who just gave birth. Her husband, Rob, was just finishing up
changing the diaper and proudly introduced me to a healthy looking hungry baby girl. He seemed happier than Liz did as she
fretted over how the breastfeeding was going, darting around the room and picking things up. I suggested
we start with breastfeeding, and after getting mom comfortable and the baby latched we began to talk. Her husband offered
her food but she refused, saying she was too tired to eat, not having slept enough. I started getting the feeling of things
not being right with Liz, a familiar feeling in the course of my doula work, and asked her how she felt emotionally. The tears
began to roll down her cheeks and she confessed that she just felt overwhelmed with all of it, the breastfeeding, the baby
crying, worrying that she couldn't take care of herself, let alone her baby, and worst of all feeling guilty for being
sad when she had so much to be thankful for. She said she was about ready to give up on the breastfeeding but felt, at the
same time, that this was all she had to offer her baby in her state of "inadequacy". Nothing I suggested made her
feel adequate or capable. I recognized from experience that she had probably more than one form of perinatal mood disorder.
She was too anxious to know when things were ok and too depressed to follow up on any suggestions when they were not and sleep
deprivation intensified all of it. She had no appetite and felt guilty for being sad at all. I explained that as a doula I
couldnt diagnose but I gave her the name of an excellent counselor who specialized in postpartum recovery. I gave her handouts,
some practical tips for calming baby and mother self care, and my own wording of the PSI motto: You're Not Alone, You're
Not to Blame, You Will Recover.
Twenty percent of all newly delivered mothers will develop postpartum depression
and anxiety, but about one third of my postpartum clients have it, because they (or their families) are the ones most likely
to reach out for doula help.
Everyone knows these women are out there suffering, and often alone, but few have
known how to help until recently as more light is shed on this topic due to celebrities coming forward with their own challenges
with PMD and news stories of women with postpartum psychosis. As professionals acquire information it is probably inevitable
that there will be some errors in treatment such as over zealous use of drugs without careful evaluation and counseling by
specialists, and using drugs too early, when it can be difficult to recognize the difference between PMD and normal baby blues
that can last one to three weeks. Evaluation is necessary to make sure she is on the right combination of drugs to treat more
than one coinciding illness. SSRIs have been promoted to treat PMD and have been helpful but they are not without drawbacks, so it is prudent
to make sure a mom wouldn't do alright just with a good counselor who specializes in PMD. ACOG published this in a May,
2007 news release: "Selective serotonin reuptake inhibitors (SSRIs) are the most commonly prescribed class of antidepressants
because they are effective, well tolerated, and have adverse effects that are less severe than those of older antidepressants.
However, recent studies have indicated that exposure to SSRIs late in pregnancy has been associated with short-term complications
in newborns, including mild respiratory distress, irritability, feeding problems, jitteriness, and seizures. Individuals taking
SSRIs may experience other side effects, including nausea, drowsiness or fatigue, decreased sex drive, headaches, weight gain
or loss, and agitation. ACOG also advises that paroxetine (Paxil®), a longer-acting SSRI, be avoided when possible by
pregnant women or women planning to become pregnant due to the potential risk of fetal heart defects, newborn persistent pulmonary
hypertension, and other negative effects." It is always advisable to first check mom's thyroid and physical
health status.
Here are some facts to help sort out the confusion:
| Depression and Anxiety During Pregnancy | 10% of all women
| Depressed
and anxious
| | "Baby
Blues" in first three weeks | 80% of all women | Sleep deprived, hormonal, crying over everything. Overwhelmed, but can sleep given chance. | | Postpartum Depression and Anxiety | 20% of all women | Sad, guilty, cant sleep, too much worrying. Chronic if untreated. | | Obsessive/Compulsive Disorder | 5% of all women | Repetitive
intrusive thoughts, abhorrent to the woman re: hurting the baby, feeling guilty. Irrational behavior (hiding knives). | | Postpartum Panic Disorder | 10% of all women | Extreme
anxiety and worry. Physical sensations, dizzy, palpitations, cant breathe, cant sleep. | | Postpartum Post Traumatic Stress Disorder | 10% of all women | Triggered by traumatic event. Flashbacks, intrusive images of event, hyper vigilant, jumpy. Depression
and anxiety can concur. Traumatic birth, rape. | | Postpartum Psychosis | 2 in 1000
women | Need hospitalization, early onset,
three days to three months hallucinations, mood instability, suspicious, may be in denial of the birth. |
Regarding postpartum psychosis, there have been newspaper stories about women who did horrific things while in a state
of psychosis, leading women to believe they could do such things themselves. It needs to be noted that psychosis is a different
illness than depression, and depression does not turn into psychosis. The first symptoms of psychosis typically begin in the
first two weeks, and involve delusional beliefs; there would be no doubt in the family's mind that she needs to go to
the hospital right away. It will be a good thing when journalists themselves learn to differentiate between the two before
frightening so many pregnant women with their stories.
There are many hypotheses regarding the cause of PMD but
few real facts. Fluctuations in hormones and brain chemical imbalances play a part in ways not yet understood. We do know
there are risk factors and prevention techniques that can help. There is strong evidence that birthing at a hospital increases
the risk of PMD because the liability-based thinking there leads to many harsh interventions from the beginning of labor that
affect the mothers moods and feelings of control and capability. Unnecessary C-section is the worst but only one of many harsh
forms of treatment to both mom and baby. Often the conflicting advice regarding breastfeeding of two to three shifts of nurses
is enough in itself to have the mother crying at home at our first postpartum doula visit. Over-testing and monitoring often
leads to comments from staff to indicate that baby might have this problem or that. Sometimes one test that shows an abnormal
reading is enough to cause mom to feel her baby might not be ok even if another test shows her baby to be normal, thus affecting
her willingness to bond for some time (with "a baby that might not make it" in her subconscious). There is some
evidence that Omega-3s can prevent depression and fatigue. Women also need good health care, resources when she is beginning
to stress, preparation for parenthood, a social network rather than isolation, a good support system at home, arrangements
for some way to get necessary sleep and be aware of past history predisposing her to PMD.
Most of us aren't
trained professionals, yet there is much we can do. We can validate our sister's suffering rather than tell her to pick
herself up by her bootstraps. We can reassure her that we will be there to help when she needs us, and we can carry the hope
that she'll recover. She has so little hope while in the crisis state; it is the biggest thing you can provide. Tell her
she is not alone, not to blame and she will recover. Find handouts for her, prepare good food for her and do whatever it takes
to enable her to get some sleep. Then most importantly of all, follow up with a plan.
If you are a birth professional
you can listen without judgment and don't diagnose. Be with the mom; educate yourself and be comfortable with mental illness,
rather than be fearful yourself. Support her family; they are frightened and confused as well. Refer her to help that may
take one or more of three forms. There are medications that can be prescribed by her OB, GP, nurse practitioner, and psychiatrist.
Most of them can be taken while breastfeeding but check with Thomas Hale's Medications
and Mothers Milk. She needs good counseling that can come from social workers, psychologists, or family counselors.
She will always need social support (not advice) from peer support groups, church, phone support, family and friends, and
doulas. Doulas generally are educated and informed about PMD and one of the best sources of woman-to-woman support. The birth
professional's role is to give mom a plan and follow up with it at least through phone calls.
Postpartum Support International is an international organization that has been helping women for years to find information and resources.
There
are many good books now that can shed a little light on this often-dark disease. The Baby Blues Connection web site has an excellent page containing most of the best reading material for these families and much other helpful information, founded by Wendy Davis, Ph.D. an Oregon PMD expert.
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